Intimacy after childbirth?

well, our life sucked before baby was born, so right away, really. lol After baby number 1, I wasn't in a steady relationship with him, so it wasn't until baby was 8 months. We were doing it like rabbits, but I was on loestrin24. Normally I have a low drive - that's why he wants me back on it! - but for the few months I was on it, it helped. I had a c-section with both. Second time kicked my .... It's hard to get comfy when you have a baby taking up your energy, time, and mental stamina. Take a break. Leave baby with grandma and go to a movie. Have a second honey moon. My hubby is in the service and as soon as we can, we are going to do that, take a break. I'm scared to leave my babies with a sitter and we just got reunited a few months ago and moved away from my mom and his, but when we are out together everything is so much better.... remember, intimacy starts outside the bedroom. If a man woos you during the day you are more likely to respond well to him at night. You know the confuscious say saying: "man who fights with wife all day long, gets no PIECE at night" lol